In sex.
Techniques, health, toys, and everything in between.
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Sex · How-to
Anal: what nobody told you that you actually need to know
A calm, honest, adult primer on anal sex. Anatomy, lube, pacing, the poop question, and the difference between novelty discomfort and a stop signal.
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Sex · Essay
Sexual choking: what the research actually says about harm reduction
The 2024–2025 medical literature is unusually unified: no choking is safe. Here is what's known, which 'safer way' rules are myths, and what an honest harm-reduction read looks like.
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Sex · List
11 sex positions worth knowing — the rest you can skip
An honest, opinionated short list of sex positions that actually earn their keep. What each one is good for, what's overrated, and when to skip it.
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Sex · Explainer
The silicone-lube-and-silicone-toys question, settled
The 'never use silicone lube on silicone toys' rule is half right and half internet myth. Here's the actual chemistry, the patch test that takes two minutes, and the lube rules that actually do hold.
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Sex · Essay
Wet dreams, in adults
Adults still have wet dreams. Here's what's actually happening, why nobody talks about it past age sixteen, and what to do about it (almost nothing).